Fall Down Seven Times, Stand Up Eight

Empower by John Spencer and A.J. Juliani was a book I literally couldn’t put down and could have tweeted all of it. It was not a heavy read but it offered me questions about my teaching that was a springboard for many of my own. It has left me feeling inspired and energised at a time when I felt I was beginning to stumble.

For over a year, I have been trying to transform my teaching and my classroom. My aim was to engage my students so they could become confident self-regulated learners. I was taking a risk. I was embarking on a new realm of education. It was a direction I knew I needed to guide my students to take. I wanted them to have a voice, be creative and own their learning while they embraced the road bumps on the way. Was this feeling of stumbling based on my fears it was too left field? I mean, what if I was seen as being a neglectful teacher because I was not micromanaging every aspect of their learning?

All my previous hesitations re-emerged when reading, but this time it was with a renewed perspective, an inspired one. I was encouraged that what I was doing was definitely on the right path. I was reinvigorated that others were also on this journey – I was not alone. Perhaps I was jumping in too deep and trying too much at once. Perhaps my fear of failing was starting to hold myself and my students back. Either way, I found myself eager to try again and forge forward on my journey to empower students.

The Japanese proverb “Fall down seven times, stand up eight” comes to mind and has me wondering. Falling and getting back up is a natural process. We did this all the time growing up: when we learned to talk, walk, eat and play. At some point however, we seem to have grown out of this. Fear seems to have taken over and we have learnt to make excuses to avoid stepping too far outside the box. Perhaps we thought we were too small to make a difference. My response to this: Have you ever tried sleeping in a room with a mosquito? A small change can make a big difference and as John and A.J. suggest, “try it for just one day.” Yes, we need to step out of our comfort zone and start with one small change. After all, as Walt Disney once said, “If you can dream it, you can do it!” We should not let anything hold us back.

Whatever this change is, embrace it despite the obstacles or falls along the way. We must fall down seven times, stand up eight” to achieve our goals. We must overcome the fear of failing and celebrate every hurdle encountered. We must learn to listen to our intuition and follow our ‘flow’ – Most importantly, we must allow our students to do this also.

Life is about learning lessons, not repeating same mistakes. Mistakes are not failures but failings we can grow from. If you fall and don’t get back up, the only path left is defeat. Failure. However, if you get back up there is still hope. Failing is therefore a springboard forward. The fight to succeed is important. It is about adjusting what you are doing to achieve the desired goal. To do this, you must be creative in your thinking, open to many possibilities, and essentially have an entrepreneurial mindset. Thomas Edison daringly revealed “I never once failed at making a light bulb. I just found 99 ways not to make one.” Imagine is he didn’t ‘stand back up’ that last time?

“Fall down seven times, stand up eight” is an experience we want to inspire in our students. The students we teach will in fact create the jobs we cannot yet conceive. They are going to need to be creative, persistent in the face of setbacks and self-managers not only their time but also their goals. Should we not then be guiding our students in this process as early as possible? Only then will they have the resilience to face these challenges with confidence.

So, what is holding us back?

Whether it is our pride, our experience or current attitude, we need to be brave and ask our students to be brave too.

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Empower has inspired me to listen to my heart and continue my journey to transform the lives of my students. Will I succeed? Hopefully. Will I fall along the way? Absolutely. The important thing is for me to embrace the times I am failing so that when I stand back up I am prepared to take another step towards achieving my goals. With any luck, my students will experience the same. Bruce Lee once summed up the role of a teacher, one that John and A.J. present in their book, and it’s a nice quote to bring my reflection to a close:

“A teacher is never the giver of truth. He is a guide, a pointer to the truth that each student much find himself.”

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Born to Teach Possibilities

I knew early on that children were part of my future. I also knew that I needed variety to keep me motivated and focused. By chance, I was fortunate to have chosen a career in teaching as opposed to becoming a secretary – two options I was toying with when leaving school. While I would have made a good secretary, I fear boredom would quickly have set in.

Teaching is my passion. Every day I am extremely blessed to get up each day, eager to see what the day will bring, how I will inspire students and what new thinking I might encounter. Every day, past and present students greet me with smiles and hugs, eager to share the latest new event in their lives. I am strict with routines but have extraordinary fun within those set boundaries.

Over the years, I have come to realise several things about being an educator. While ideas and approaches come in and out of vogue, the following four points remain pivotal to my beliefs:

  • To teach something well, we must first experience it ourselves to understand it
  • Emotional Literacy is essential for life
  • Foundational skills are vital – not just reading, writing and counting, but listening, questioning and problem solving
  • Philosophy and personal pedagogy underpin all we do.

Teaching is more than the students in our care, the subjects we teach and the colleagues we work with. For me, teaching is about inspiring those around me: staff, students, parents. Motivating others to see the endless possibilities that surround them. Not an easy task some days but a challenge I rise to every single day. It is through our personal relationships that effective learning environments are nurtured.

In a world that is ever changing, fast paced and is constantly connected, our personalities are changing. Somehow through all this chaos, we are rewiring ourselves to see the negatives first. We are forgetting that a coin always has two sides. All we need to do is flip it over and see a different possibility and be open to those thoughts. If I can help a student, colleague or parent to see the brighter side of a situation or to view a problem from a different perspective then I will be happy.

They say some of the 21st century skills employers require will be adaptability and the aptitude to solve problems in unique ways. How can you do this unless you are willing to see opportunities behind every set back? Setbacks are not final. They are intervals where we can begin again. Failing is part of success and it requires courage to continue. Being open to explore new options is central to the creative problem solving process. It is a skill required in everything we do, both now and in the future.

While I know I was born to teach for many reasons, I believe my capacity to see many possibilities is what inspires others. It gives hope, unlocks potential and improves mindsets beyond first perceptions. Along with daily personal connections, this is what galvanises my passion for teaching and fuels my beliefs as an educator. Yes, I was born to teach.